Happy Mother Day

Ibu adalah orang tua perempuan seorang anak, baik melalui hubungan biologis maupun sosial. Umumnya, ibu memiliki peranan yang sangat penting dalam membesarkan anak, dan panggilan ibu dapat diberikan untuk perempuan yang bukan orang tua kandung (biologis) dari seseorang yang mengisi peranan ini. Contohnya adalah pada orang tua angkat (karena adopsi) atau ibu tiri (istri ayah biologis anak).  

Baca dan renungkanlah..

Suatu ketika Seorang bayi siap untuk dilahirkan. menjelang diturunkan, si bayi bertanya kepada Tuhan :

"Para malaikat disini mengatakan besok Engkau akan mengirimkanku ke dunia, tetapi bagaimana cara hidup disana? saya begitu kecil dan lemah." kata si bayi

Tuhan menjawab: "AKU telah memilih satu malaikat untukmu. ia akan menjaga dan mengasihimu.

"Tapi disyurga apa yang saya lakukan hanya tertawa dan bernyanyi ini cukup bagi saya untuk bahagia." Demikian Kata Si bayi.

Tuhanpun menjawab : "Malaikatmu akan bernyanyi dan tersenyum untukmu setiap hari dan kamu akan merasakan kehangatan cintanya dan jadi lebih bahagia."

Sibayipun bertanyan lagi : "Dan apa yang dapat saya lakukan saat saya ingin berbicara pada-Mu?"

sekali lagi Tuhan menjawab : "Malaikatmu akan mengajarkan bagaimana cara kamu berdoa."

sibayipun masih belum puas. Iapun bertanya lagi: "Saya mendengar bahwa di bumi banyak orang jahat siapa yang akan melindungi saya?"

dengan penuh kesabaran Tuhanpun menjawab: "Malaikatmu akan melindungi dengan taruhan jiwa nya sekalipun.

sibayipun tetap belum puas dan melanjutkan pertanyaannya: "Tapi saya akan bersedih tidak melihat ENGKAU lagi."

dan Tuhanpun menjawab: "malaikatmu akan menceritakan padamu tentang AKU dan akan mengajarkan bagaimana agar kamu bisa kembali kepada-KU walaupun sesungguhnya AKU selalu berada disisimu."

saat itu syurga begitu tenangnya. sehingga suara dari bumi dapat terdengar dan Sang anak dengan suara lirih bertanya: "Tuhan jika saya harus pergi sekarang bisakah ENGKAU memberitahuku siapa nama malaikat dirumahku nanti?"

Diam sejenak......akhirnya Tuhanpun menjawab : "Kau dapat memanggil malaikatmu dengan sebutan "IBU"

Kenanglah ibu yang selalu menyayangimu.

Untuk ibu yang selalu meneteskan air mata ketika km pergi. Tapi pernah km meneteskan airmatamu ketika ibumu yg pergi? Mungkin iya, tapi hanya sesaat. Km melupakannya saat km bersama teman atau kekasihmu.

Ingatkah engkau ketika ibumu rela tidur tanpa selimut demi melihatmu tidur nyenyak dengan 2 selimut membaluti tubuhmu.

Ingatkah engkau ketika jemari ibu mengusap lembut kepalamu dan ingatkah engkau ketika airmata menetes dari mata ibumu ketika ia melihatmu terbaring sakit? Tapi, ketika ibumu sakit? pernahkah km menjaganya 24jam penuh seperti ibu menjagamu saat sakit?

Sesekali jenguklah ibumu yang selalu menantikan kepulanganmu dirumah tempat km dilahirkan.

Kembalilah mohon maaf pada ibumu yang selalu rindu pada senyummu.

Jangan biarkan km kehilangan saat saat yang akan km rindukan dimasa datang ketika ibumu telah tiada. Tak ada lagi yang berdiri didepan pintu menyambut kita. Tak ada lagi senyuman indah tanda bahagia.

Y.ang ada hanyalah kamar kosong tiada penghuninya Yang ada hanyalah baju yang digantung dilemari kamarnya. Tak ada lagi dan tak akan pernah ada lagi yang meneteskan airmata, mendoakanmu disetiap hembusan nafasnya dan disetiap sholatnya.

Ciumlah kaki ibu yang selalu merindukanmu dan berikanlah yang terbaik diakhir hayatnya.

kenanglah semua cinta dan kasih sayangnya.

Bilaku ingat.... masa kecilku ku selalu menyusahkanmu. Mungkin sampai sekarang

Bilaku ingat.... masa kecilku ku selalu mengecewakanmu.

Banyak sekali pengorbanmu yang kau berikan padaku.

Tanpa letih dan tanpa pamrih kau berikan semua itu.

Engkaulah yang ku kasihi.... Engkaulah yang kurindu.

Kuharap selalu doamu darimu ibu.....

Tanpa doamu takkan ku raih

Tanpa doamu takkan ku capai segala cinta & segala keinginan dari ku ibu

HAPPY MOTHER DAY

I LOVE YOU, MOM! 

 

4♥

Happy Anniversary Honey

4 months isn't short for us to learning each other

laugh, cheerful, cry, fights, up and down

but, we still hope and keeping our heart

making story's to be history

keep positive and optimist

stay faiths and loving

- your lady

End of Middle Test

WOHOOOOO! Middle Test is completely over! Welcome freedom, byebye books xoxo

after mid exams this night I had a little "refreshing time" for myself at city park with my boyf.

 outfit from NEXT I top from singapore I floral legging from singapore I bag from ripcurl I shoes from CLUE

Quotes

"A beautiful life is if you and me understands about forgiving eachother." ♥

Quotes

"Bukannyaa Tuhan menciptakan manusia dg hati nurani agar manusia bisa mengerti dan mampu merasakan apa yg dirasakan oleh manusia lain?"

3♥

today is a special day for me, for us maybe. where we first met. where we knew each other. when we said serious with commitment's and when everything started. everything plain everything not really important for that time. but now, I have more a month relationship with him. and not expected, we still together until right now. with no one any else. trust, faith, honest, feelings, even it's really hard to learn how to understand each other but we did it step by step and I feel my relationship is complete. even we never celebrate our anniversary with something romantic or something fancy but honestly I'm not the type of woman who really expect that all. I really just hope to hold an honest mean, commitment and always remember to keep our promises. I just feel something different now on with him, I just feel something hiding to me something who i do not know and never know. I really loving this sweet relationship, this long enough relationship. i just appreciate everything who i've got now. I remember when everything still plain and we did not realize now that everything really important now. moreover, we meet everyday and everytime, he often help my assignments and I support's him back often. he keeps me 24 hours when I was sick, even willing to shed tears, just because I'm sick. We start all from when we were young. and now I do not think it all leads seriously. I hope will seriously whenever. loving your soulmate with no reason. with no complain. loving your soulmate with what the way he/she is. loving hi/her without his/her past. loving him/her like they love you now. don't ever thing you can get another bf/gf with the same character. kindness, selfish, jelousy, fussy, crusty.. is really proper in a relationship. try to go through problem and any problems with good communication together. without breaking word. do not ever say break if you still loving each other. don't ever say break if you can not be away with him/her. let your love strong with problems. true love is hard to find, true love is very complicated to be live. so dear my man... I wanna tell you why I love you. and if you read this post let me know you how important you for me whenever. so many things you have taught to me, so many things what I learned from you. so many beautiful happens what you gave to me. even it's not about a fancy or romantic. So thank you for being the person who taught me to love... and to be love. don't confuse, you don't have to say anything... i just wanted to tell you. Happy Anniversary for our 3 months relationship.. I love you, Donson :)

Quotes

"Kau tahu? Kadang kau tetap bermain meski kau tahu kau akan kalah. Atau kadang, kau meninggalkan permainan walau tahu kau bisa menang."

I Like You Like..

"I like you more than strawberry and chocolate and really like strawberry and chocolate"

Welcome 18's!

July, 26th 2012

Yippy! Welcome 18's! I got surprise. The earliest surprise from my boyf, Dona Sonata. You know what he did? He came to my house at 00.00 with his brother a.k.a Fahmi. He brought a birthday cake on his hands with a candle number 18. On my birthday cake there is my photo with him. Oh its so cute. I was speechless and very very very happy. He also gave me a gift Elmo doll. I like Elmo so much. He understands what my favorite. I am very grateful to him. because nobody ever gave me a surprise at 00.00. I don't take picture with him because I look very wrinkled ang ugly hahaha. But I took the photo birthday cake and gifts

I really thank Allah because still allowed me to live and enjoy the world. I also thank to my amazing family, my lovely friends, and all the people I love and love me. I grew up. I was already 18 years old. I have to understand what is wrong and what is right in my life. I always hope for the best in my life. God always blessed me ♥♥♥

25♥

HUAAAAAAAAAAAA very excited today. After I dreaming about prince charming. I wish there is a prince charming come to me carrying bouquet of roses and then he says "would you be my girl friend?" ouh its so romantic, right?

And you know what?????

today, July 25 2012 a prince charming come to me. Oh no no no, maybe I should add one word behind. More precisely prince charming funny come to me. He carried two sticks of red roses for me. He grabbed both my hands. He's very funny. Many times he wanted to say but not so. That's the reason why I gave him the name prince charming funny. But, after he closed his eyes and take a breath, he opened his eyes again, he looked into my eyes deeply and said "would you be my girlfriend?" I'm speechless. Yes a prince charming really comes.


You remember? I once wrote something about the big dude in this blog. Dona Sonata, yes he is my prince charming. He is always with me, accompany me and give me more attention. I am very comfortable with him. I don't pray this relationship will be long, but I pray the best and how can we understand each other and make this relationship will be long.

Karma

In social networks 'twitter' says if today is "Karma Day in the World". I don't  understand what is meant. I laughed reading hell wrote hahahaha. But it's so the idea of ​​writing for me today. Okay, today I will describe 'Karma' with my own thoughts.

Banyak orang bilang Hukum Karma itu ada. Entah aku harus percaya atau enggak. Dan jujur aku takut sih kena karma. Yang aku tau Karma itu dari bahasa Sansekerta artinya perbuatan. Bisa disebut hasil dari perbuatan itu sendiri, jika seseorang yang terkena karma maka dia telah menerima akibat/hasil dari perbuatannya di masa lalu atau disaat itu juga, baik itu berupa karma baik karena melakukan perbuatan baik atau karma buruk karena melakukan perbuatan menyakiti atau merugikan orang lain, sehingga karma itu sering dikaitkan pada hukum alam, yaitu hukum sebab dan akibat.

Dunia itu berputar atau dalam isitilah disebut berotasi. Aku pernah ngerasain apa yang kamu rasain, kamu pernah ngerasain apa yang aku rasain, dia pernah ngerasain apa yang kamu rasa, dan aku bisa jadi bakal ngerasain apa yang dia rasa. Itu pasti! And whatever. You to believe or not. You may remember my words. 

Or karma is part of the mystery of God????? Manusia hanya diberi keterbatasan untuk mengetahui kenyataan yang sebenarnya, karena jika banyak manusia memahaminya, maka itu bukanlah misteri-Nya, karena bisa ditebak dan diduga oleh manusia, dan sudah pastinya dunia takkan ramai dengan hiruk pikuknya orang jahat, karena orang akan semakin takut berbuat jahat, karena sudah tahu akan akibat dan kapan akan menerima hasilnya. Entahlah tapi aku pernah ngerasain itu. Ngerasain semua bakal berotasi. Tuhan itu adil jadi Tuhan  bakal selalu ngasih pelajaran hidup buat umat-Nya. 

"Kalo kamu baik, Tuhan pasti bakal kasih yang lebih baik. Dan sebaliknya kalo kamu jahat Tuhan bakal kasih yang lebih jahat. Intinya Allah bakal kasih lebih sama apa yang udah kamu buat." -el 

"Ga selamanya orang baik itu bakal baik terus, pasti ada sisi jahatnya meskipun sedikit. Dan sebaliknya ga selamanya orang jahat itu bakal jahat terus mereka pasti punya sisi baik walaupun cuma sedikit." -el

Moving On!

People are different. Maybe you'll think that I easily fall in love. Yes, that's true. I just don't want to be too sad for long. I don't to drag of misery. I just want to enjoy with my life isn't long, maybe. For me, not have much time to forget but how do I to be alone and look for change. I do not hate my ex. however, I was with him. live all together. the joys and sorrows.


You think I am not sad? You are wrong. I am very sad I fell and probably difficult to get up. I think why all should be like this???? Not easy to build a relationship. It may be easy to build if you are not serious. but I think whatever I do I have to be serious. Okay, why I say not easy? Yeah because we must to know someone. How the person's behavior? How his family? What person's weakness? and what are the advantages of him. I actually lazy for that. But, all this must end. Probably, I ever cried. maybe, I've hurt. but now I am back because I moved on. Maybe you'll think that I was quick to moved on. but that's my way of forgetting.

"open a new chapter in your life and then you will be happy without look back." -el

I'm just trying to strong. I am strong because the people around me. My friends, my brothers, especially my mom. I learned from my mom. She's very strong. My father left us all for so many years ago. I also be strong like my mom. I'm not sad and be looking for a change. My mom always comfort me and give me advice. 

"you're beautiful and you're good. You'll also get a better. Don't worry you'll be sad. There are still many people who want to comfort you. Especially me, your mom. There are still many men who want to take care of you. keep smile." - my mom

I don't expect anything. I just hope that one. The best in myself and my life. I hope after this I will find someone who really understands me. Amen.

Chocolate

I love chocolate so much. What about you bloggie? I think you same with me, right?

Okayyyy, kali ini el bakal bahas tentang cokelat. Siapa sih yang ga suka coklat? Menurut el, coklat itu enak banget. Dari rasanya yang mulai macem-macem, bentuknya yang macem-macem itu bikin ngiler banget. Dari anak kecil sampe nenek kakekpun masih suka banget yang namanya coklat. Banyak banget orang salah presepsi tentang coklat. Katanya, kalo makan coklat bisa bikin gemuk. Kalian bakal tau setelah baca artikel ini.

Coklat ternyata berkhasiat membuat umur seseorang menjadi lebih panjang. Suatu studi epidemiologis telah dilakukan pada mahasiswa Universitas Harvard yang terdaftar antara tahun 1916-1950. Dengan menggunakan food frequency questionnaire berhasil dikumpulkan informasi tentang kebiasaan makan permen atau coklat pada mahasiswa Universitas Harvard.

Diduga antioksidan fenol yang terkandung dalam coklat adalah penyebab mengapa mereka bisa berusia lebih panjang. Fenol ini juga banyak ditemukan pada anggur merah yang sudah sangat dikenal sebagai minuman yang baik untuk kesehatan jantung. Coklat mempunyai kemampuan untuk menghambat oksidasi kolesterol LDL (kolesterol jahat) dan meningkatkan fungsi kekebalan tubuh, sehingga dapat mencegah risiko penyakit jantung koroner dan kanker.
Sepertiga lemak yang terdapat dalam coklat adalah asam oleat yaitu asam lemak tak jenuh. Asam oleat ini juga dominan ditemukan pada minyak zaitun. Studi epidemiologis pada penduduk Mediterania yang banyak mengkonsumsi asam oleat dari minyak zaitun menyimpulkan efek positip oleat bagi kesehatan jantung. Makan coklat tidak akan menimbulkan kecanduan, tetapi bagi sebagian orang rasa coklat yang enak mungkin menyebabkan kerinduan untuk mengkonsumsinya kembali. Ini yang disebut chocolate craving. Dampak coklat terhadap perilaku dan suasana hati (mood) terkait erat dengan chocolate craving. Rindu coklat bisa karena aromanya, teksturnya, manis-pahitnya dsb. Hal ini juga sering dikaitkan dengan kandungan phenylethylamine yang adalah suatu substansi mirip amphetanine yang dapat meningkatkan serapan triptofan ke dalam otak yang kemudian pada gilirannya menghasilkan dopamine. Dampak dopamine adalah muncul perasaan senang dan perbaikan suasana hati. Phenylethylamine juga dianggap mempunyai khasiat aphrodisiac yang memunculkan perasaan seperti orang sedang jatuh cinta (hati berbunga). Konon Raja Montezuma di jaman dahulu selalu mabuk minuman coklat sebelum menggilir harem-haremnya yang berbeda setiap malam.

Katekin adalah antioksidan kuat yang terkandung dalam coklat. Salah satu fungsi antioksidan adalah mencegah penuaan dini yang bisa terjadi karena polusi ataupun radiasi. Katekin juga dijumpai pada teh meski jumlahnya tidak setinggi pada coklat. Orang tua jaman dahulu sering mempraktekkan cuci muka dengan air teh karena dapat membuat kulit muka bercahaya dan awet muda. Seandainya mereka tahu bahwa coklat mengandung katekin lebih tinggi daripada teh, mungkin mereka akan menganjurkan mandi lulur dengan coklat.
Coklat juga mengandung theobromine dan kafein. Kedua substansi ini telah dikenal memberikan efek terjaga bagi yang mengkonsumsinya. Oleh karena itu ketika kita terkantuk-kantuk di bandara atau menunggu antrian panjang, makan coklat cukup manjur untuk membuat kita bergairah kembali. 

Nah, kurang lebih itu manfaat dari mengkonsumsi coklat. Apa masih mikir kalo makan coklat itu bisa bikin gemuk? Hahaha gausah khawatir lagi. Yang ada kalo kita mengkonsumsi coklat 'dengan wajar' itu akan bikin jantung kita sehat 

Love is.....

Love is its having someone to be with.
Someone can't be without. 
Its wanting to hold you every second. 
That what its all about its the happiness you feel. 
When things are wrong, the way you are sitting there and think of crazy love songs.
There is sadness in your heart if you knew they were not there. Your fear of your safety.
When everything is gone, the dream that you hold as well go. you just think if you have someone to talk to. when no one else is listening. He was there for all that.


Its being so in love. that nothing in your life is missing. You know that i love you and i'll love you forever. thinking of you every second. that what true love is ♥

Big Dude!

Whazzup? I miss blogging btw. I have a dude. His name is Dona. Maybe if you just know his name, you suspect she is a woman, right? But, no..no... He is a man hahaha. He not asked me to make this post on my blog. I want to make it. Actually I wanted to write this yesterday, but  I don't know, I like to postpone anything, I think it becomes my habbit, it such a bad thing, don't follow me that way.


Okayyyyy back to Dona. His full name is Dona Sonata. Born on April, 3 1993. He's a Batamnese. Actually he's my senior. He had entered college last year, but he was not comfortable with the faculty. Finally he tried another faculty this year.I met him at campus events. P2KK (personality and leadership programs). Activity lasted for 6 days. I'm glad to see it. He was quiet and shy. We are not too close to each other but trying to close hahahaha. After event P2KK, we still contact via bbm. From there we tell each other. Now, I know him more. He was very funny, sweet, and makes me very comfortable. I loved to hear him laugh, I also really like to hear when he speaks accent like upin ipin hahaha. I like to talk with him. He's a good listener and good speaker. So we are "connected" or "related" or something like that. These are some pict of him.

The Colors of Roses

Send valentine roses at the time of day, or other family events are always a good idea and certainly would make the recipient who may in fact is our sweetheart feel flattered and flowery. But, caution you not to send flowers roses with the wrong color, which might make its recipients to misunderstand aka miss understanding. Who were going to shoot him, uh ... actually supposed to just temenan course, just because you send roses with the wrong color.

Let no one chose the color when it will give you a rose, it helps to consider first the following range of color of roses meaning behind the colors.

1. Red Rose

Yups ... no doubt the red rose is a rose is the most common way to express your feelings of love. Red symbolizes love, beauty, respect, romance and even as a compliment. Basically it means bold red color. But if interpreted as flower color, red color symbolizes tuh love and affection. And love is likely related to the relations of men and women. Red flower color can also be interpreted as in love with a sense of 'respect' high.

2. White Rose

When Valentine Day's people flocked to send red roses, why not if you looks different. Give your sweetheart white roses. White as a symbol of true love, holiness, purity of heart and greatness, will be more convincing to the lover that you are so loved and cared for her. White roses are also suitable given to friends, because white reflects the true friendship.

3. Pink Rose

Pink symbolizes happiness, respect, tenderness, and of course a compliment. This color is most appropriate to express a feeling like a person. So if you want to convey a feeling like the same person, the color pink is the color most suitable. Pink color can also be interpreted thanks and deep gratitude. Moreover if the color is younger can be interpreted as an expression of admiration, while the red color of the older youth can be interpreted as an expression of gratitude toward the giver of the recipient.

4. Yellow Rose

It is suitable given to friends or family after the occurrence of conflict or strife. Yellow roses symbolize friendship, family, fun and excitement. But not a few people who perceive yellow flowers as an expression of hate and jealousy. So be careful ... The yellow color also means flexibility and freedom.

5. Black Rose

Hate it ... How to describe any human is different, there is describe directly, some are just instore itself. Now, instead of tired hearts, hate it also can be expressed by sending flowers black.

6. Peach Rose

a single rose signifies our disclosures to a person's sense of friendship, because of the color peach is the color that symbolizes the warmth of a bond.

7. Orange Rose

Orange roses symbolize the spirit of a person, which usually can be interpreted as giving orange roses would like to know more distant receiver.

With looking at the meaning of the color of the roses we can better know the right time to express their feelings through a rose. Don't have much to say let it be a rose that reveals the content of our hearts :)

Someone

Someone comes in your life, for a reason

They came to offer happiness also disappointment

There are only a moment ...

Some are at all times

They come and go,

Sometimes leave you sadness

But ....

Believe me! There will be someone who comes

Settled in the rest of your life.

God purposely let you meet some people the wrong,

Before finally found the right person.
 
The right way and a wonderful time.

Claire Vintage Floral

Hello there! Sorry for not post anything in 9 days. I was too lazy to post anything. HAHAHA.
Yes! This is claire vintage floral ♥ This is a shoe that is I want. I've been looking for shoes that wear floral design but I think it is fitting for my life. These are very special shoe. I can not wait for June 30th. I can not wait to wear it. This shoe was designed by Diana Rikasari. I bought it only IDR 255,000. Maybe I'll look cute using it hahaha. These few pictures:

 

  

A Thousand Years

Heart beats fast
Colors and promises
How to be brave
How can I love when I'm afraid to fall
But watching you stand alone
All of my doubt suddenly goes away somehow

One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

Time stands still
Beauty in all she is
I will be brave
I will not let anything take away
What's standing in front of me
Every breath
Every hour has come to this

One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

One step closer
One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

Happy Father Day!

Today is father day, right? 

Yes, people say today is father day. But, I can't give expression to him directly. I'm so sad but on the other hand I'm happy because my Allah save my father in heaven. My Allah not let my father make a lot of sin in the world. My father left me when I was 2 years old. Such a small age know what? So far I never knew my father face directly. Only know from his photo. Eventhough I never know him, my love for my father same with my love to my mum. 

My mum always tell me about my father. My father so in love with his wife and his children. He's a very good for others. My father always took me walk and play before he went to work. Can be said that my father is very crazy to work for his family. Not only work in the office, but he's also taking care of some business of my grandfather such as supermarkets, auto repair shop, cafe and ponds.  He never complained at all. Until the end he contracted the liver disease. Until a few years he finally returned to God. He once told my mum that mothers should care for their children until the children become successful people and my father also advised that she should still be a good mother, a strong mother and keep helping others.

My older brother who is number two is very similar to my father. My mum says if you miss your father see your brother, not much different in appearance with your father.

Maybe it's a little story about my father. The point, eventhough I didn't see you, I never knew you, I always loved you and I know you love me too, Dad. I'm always pray for you in every prayer so you calm and we can meet again. Amen

Happy Father Day, I love you so much Daddy...

Dream. Believe. Create. Succeed

Menjadi sukses itu tidak mudah. Kesuksesan bukan sesuatu yang datang tiba-tiba dari langit. Kesuksesan merupakan hasil dari sebuah proses perjalanan yang bernama perjuangan. 

"Ibaratin kalian pengen ngelukis sesuatu,  kalian harus mikirin apa yang harus kalian lukis? Dengan apa kalian ngelukisnya? Buat siapa kalian ngelukisnya? Dan gimana caranya kalian ngelukis supaya lukisan kalian keliatan indah dan tentunya memberi kepuasan tersendiri buat diri kalian dan orang lain yang ngeliatnya. Itu cuman diri kalian sendiri yang tau gimana caranya."

Kalian harus nentuin tujuan hidup, sebelum nentuin tujuan hidup kalian harus kenal sama diri kalian. "Who am I?" Siapa kalian sebenernya? Apa yang kalian punya dalam diri kalian? Apa kelebihan kalian? Apa kekurangan kalian? Apa peranan kalian? dana apa keinginan kalian? Ketauilah melalui perenungan untuk mendapatkan refleksi diri sendiri. Kita mencoba menilai pada posisi mana prestasi, tingkat ketaqwaan, kesehatan, kehidupan sosial atau feed back dari orang lain. Setelah mengetahui dirinya, maka terbentuklah sikap dan perilaku dalam menentukan arah dan prinsip hidup yang diinginkan.


1. Kesuksesan berawal dari mimpi. Orang yang sukses biasanya punya mimpi yang akan dia wujudkan. Dia berani bermimpi karena dia yakin akan mencapainya. Dia mampu ngalahin  keraguan dan rasa takut yang ngehantuin dirinya dalam usaha mencapai cita-cita. Bermimpilah dan hilangkan rasa takut akan kegagalan dalam menggapai mimpi itu, pasti kalian akan mendapat sebuah kesuksesan. Orang yang takut sama mimpinya berarti gagal sebelum melangkah menggapai mimpi itu.

2. Kesuksesan berawal dari kepercayaan. Tiap orang pengen bahagia dan sukses. Kepercayaan diri salah satu kunci kesuksesan. Dengan percaya diri kalian dapat mengerjakan berbagai hal sehingga membuat peluang kalian menjadi besar. Orang yang tidak percaya diri menganggap dirinya tidak mampu mengerjakan suatu hal, dan sampai kapanpun dia tidak akan mampu untuk mengerjakannya. 

Setelah mempunyai modal mimpi dan percaya diri, kita lanjutkan perjalanan menuju sukses. Perjalanan itu melalui tangga-tangga yang setiapnya harus dilewati. Berjalan terus dan bekerja untuk mewujudkannya.

-Be a successful person-

Stranger? Stronger

Menjadi orang kuat terkadang harus menjadi orang aneh terlebih dulu. Contohnya, mantan pacar si doi, yang masih galauin doi sampe sekarang. Nah kita pacarnya? Risih dong ya? Kadang suka sakit hati sendiri kan kalo mantan si doi masih galau di social network. Update twitter misalnya.. Biasanya sih ada yang pake modus gerilya ada juga yang langsung frontal nyebutin namanya. Pacar doi? kretek kretek dah tuh hatinya, marah-marah sendiri ga jelas. Kesian si doi juga kalo sampe kena semprot. Padahal doi nyantai aja ga ngehiraiun sama sekali. Namanya cewe ya? Takut gitu hahaha.

1. Jangan sampe lo yang berharap sama dia tapi lo yang mengakhiri. Kalo dulu doi diputusin? kenapa sekarang pas doi udah dapet cewe yg lebih baik digalauin? Kalo sesama  cewe dia mikir dong perasaan pacar si doi. Seharusnya bisa rasain kalo dia jadi pacar doi. Ya gatausih ya kalo ga punya hati cewe. Berasa sengaja bikin down. Dan bodohnya lagi kalo yang dibikin down jadi ng-down beneran! Tapi mungkin ini bisa jadi senjata. Senjata kekuatan mental. Inget pepatah kan? 'sedikit demi sedikit lama-lama menjadi bukit' kalo kita suka dibikin down lama-lama kita bisa jadi kebal.

2. Nggak semua kenyataan yang kita tau, itu bagus buat diketahui. Jadi gini, Kenapa kita harus nerima kenyataan kalo dia mantan doi? Hahaha. Ya emang gue harus terima itu. Mau ga mau yekan

3. Dimana ada sayang, pasti ada rasa sakit, bisa dibilang ini cobaan dari Tuhan, kita sanggup apa ga nahan buat lebih sabar dan ga marah krn mantan doi masih suka galauin doi. Mungkin suatu saat kita bakal jadi mantan dan bisa jadi kita galauin mantan pacar. Pasti pacar mantan kita ngerasain apa yang kita rasain. Karena hidup itu berputar, berotasi. Lo bisa jadi Gue, Gue bisa jadi Lo.

4. Menjadi strong ga semudah saat kita jadi lemah, Yaaa kadang kita emang pura-pura kuat meskipun emang lg rapuh. Buat nguatin hati ga gampang kaya tiba-tiba hati lagi di titik lemah. Mulut kadang gampang ngomong tapi hati susah ngelakuinnya. Seandainya apa yang mudah diucapkan juga mudah dilakukan, pasti kita bakal bilang "Gue bakal selalu kuat ngadepin apapun yang bikin hati gue jadi down".

5. Nggak ada yang mau disakitin meskipun kita pernah ngelakuin itu, siapa sih yang mau disakitin? Ga adalah, meskipun kita pernah nyakitin orang padahal kita tau rasanya ga enak.

6. Apa yang seharusnya dilupakan, malah keinget terus. Apa yang seeharusnya ditinggalkan malah melekat terus, yaa mungkin mantan doi udah berusaha ngelupain tapi emang dia masih inget doi dan gabisa lupain kenangan-kenanganya. Eaaaaa...

7. Semua ada saatnya, dan indah pada waktunya, suatu saat kita harus percaya mantan doi bakal lupain doi, dan kita nyadarin kalo semua butuh waktu. Entah itu cepat atau lambat.

8. Cewek lemah dalam mengeluarkan airmata, tetapi mereka kuat dalam ngadepinnya, cewe kadang  suka nangis kalo ga bisa nahan tapi juga selalu kuat meskipun udah berkali-kali nangis.

9. Masalah bukan bikin kita jadi lemah, kita harus mikir masalah bikin kita belajar jadi kuat, setiap ada masalah kita harus selalu belajar buat lebih kuat meskipun kadang kita lemah.

10. Orang yang menyesal di kemudian hari biasanya sulit untuk melupakan masa lalu, mungkin mantan doi nyesel dan susah lupain doi. Makanya kita harus membuat keputusan dan mempertimbangan keputusan yang udah kita buat dulu biar ujung-ujungnya ga nyesel!

11. Seandainya ada obat bius biar luka hati itu ga kerasa, mungkin kita bakal ngantri beli biar ga ngerasain tekanan batin kalo kita tau mantan doi masih suka galauin doi ckck.. Tapi itu nggak ada kan? Kita bius hati kita dengan pikiran yang positif

12. Nggak semua 2 orang yang saling menyayangi bisa bersatu, ibarat sisi mata uang kitaselalu berharap sama-sama dilepas-pisahkan. Tapi belajarlah dari perbedaan. Kadang perbedaanlah yang bisa menyatukan keegoisan masing-masing :)

Hopefully can be a motivation,

xoxo

Elle

Wanted Stuff

Really, I'd love to buy it!!!!!!!!! I should be saving xoxoxo

Irish Black and White Shoes

Peacock Necklace

Sweety Marry Bag Pink

Floral Docmart Boots

I hope I can buy it <3

My Inspiration and My Hero

30 maret 1996, umur gue belum genep 2 taun. bokap ninggalin gue, nyokap gue, dan dua abang gue buat selama-lamanya dan ga akan pernah kembali. gue ngerti banget perasaan nyokap gue pasti kepukul banget. tapi yang gue tau nyokap gue wanita kuat! :)

nyokap gue rela banting tulang buat ngidupin 3 anaknya sendirian. abang gue udah jadi sarjana dua-duanya, dan gue? mau baru lulus SMA, nyokap gue biayain sekolah kita bertiga itu sendirian. brkali-kali gue nanya "ma, ga pengin nikah lagi?" gue selalu inget jawaban nyokap gue tetap sama" kalo mama ga sayang sama kalian, mama udah nikah dari dulu, mama ga akan mikirin kalian, mama akan beli semua apa yg mama suka. dan sekarang ade liatkan? mama sayang sama kalian, biar deh mama capek, itu semua buat kalian, mama pengen ngewujud-in mimpi papa buat nyelesein pendidikan kalian sampe kalian bener-bener jadi orang (orang sukses)" 

kadang, gue ga ngerti perasaan nyokap gue. gue ngerasa dosa banget kalo sampe gue boongin nyokap, ga nurut sama nyokap. kadang gue mikir ga akan kuat kalo gue ada d posisi nyokap, berangkat kerja dari jam setengah 8 pagi sampe jam 5 sore itupun kalo ga lembur. kalo lembur nyokap bisa pulang di atas jam 8 malem.

belum lagi kalo gue sakit? bisa bayangin pikiran nyokap gue kepontang-panting mikirin semua sendirian! yang uang sekolah anaknya, uang makan, uang belanja, bayar pembantu, bayar ini bayar itu..  kadang juga gue masih ga sadar-sadar sama itu semua. gue masih berani sama nyokap. gue ga nurut, dan yang bikin gue bersyukur banget, nyokap selalu bisa kabulin apa yang gue mau. gue sangat-sangat bersyukur banget.

nyokap gue juga selalu bilang sama gue, biarpun gue cewe.. gue harus kuliah, harus kerja! biar besok kalo gue udah nikah, gue ga perlu nunggu uang dari suami gue. dan gue siap kalo suatu saat suami gue ninggalin gue karna gue punya kerjaan untuk hidupin anak0anak gue besok. gue selalu inget kata-kata itu. nyokap ga pernah pelit sama anak-anaknya atau sama sodara-sodaranya. nyokap selalu bantu orang yang susah.

sampe kapanpun, nyokap berarti banget d mata gue! gue ga akan bisa jadi beliau dan ga akan pernah bisa bales jasa dia ke gue.. 

gue baru sadar, nyokap yang ditinggalin bokap 16 tahun tegar dan kuat banget, nah gue? ditinggal cowok macem gitu udah nangis mewek-mewek. nyokap gue inspirasi gue banget!

Holiday in Singapore

Aditia Reviansyah graduation

 Andikha K. Ramadhan graduation